Sunday, January 11, 2015

Beautiful Indian Dresses are Very Heavy


Our Indian Experience

On Monday, we got back to our apartment and then we got a visit from Sister Liljenquist's Aunt and Uncle who were down here visiting their daughter who lives in the South mission.  Don't worry, we got permission!  They gave us a gift card to go to dinner, so after emailing we had a delicious dinner.  We then did some tracting in the cold, fun stuff.

On Tuesday we saw a few of our investigators.  Well, we attempted to anyway.  A few of our appointments canceled so we ended up doing a lot of going back and forth and knocking on doors.  We had a great dinner of these fried mashed potato ham patties.  They were delicious!  We then went out and tried to find some less actives and visited some members.  We then switched companions for some exchanges.  Sister Davis came with me to Olde Oaks this time.

Wednesday morning we went to see Betty and tried talking to her about getting her to the temple.  She is a sass master, so I think it went well?  We then had some lunch and went to stop by an investigator.  We were able to talk to her briefly, share a scripture, and set a return appointment.  I thought we had an appointment in the same cul-de-sac, but as we were going to the door, I remembered we didn't.  We needed to be there that day though because we went to see another less active lady around the corner and she almost cried when she saw us.  She had us put on face masks before entering because she has a lot of health issues and no immune system.  She has gone through a lot and is in serious need of counseling.  We were able to talk to her about the Atonement, LDS family services counseling, and coming back to church.  She really wants to come back to church, so we are going to do what we can.  

Sorting clothes with Sis Davis
We then stopped by an investigator's home for an appointment, but her whole family was sick.  She doesn't have a phone, so she can't call us, so we will just have to try again later.  We then went to NAM and sorted clothes for a few hours with the elders.  Fun stuff.  We had a good New Year's dinner, went out knocking, and had a good time.  There was this one lady whose door we knocked on let us borrow some scarves because we looked cold. She was so nice!  We brought them back when we were finished and gave her a bag of candy we had.  Then I said good bye to Sister Davis and welcomed Sister Liljenquist back.

We had weekly planning all New Years day until heading to the mission office.  Sister Liljenquist had to talk to President about something and that is when I got my super quick ecclesiastical endorsement.  We then tried by some investigators we hadn't heard from in a while and then went to visit a member we hadn't seen at church for a while.  We get there, knock on the door and....another member that doesn't live there answered it.  Slightly confused we said, "This isn't your house, what is going on?"  I guess we crashed their New Year's football party.  Most of the people were upstairs watching the game and he had happened to be downstairs.  Also, there was a member's mother there and she said that if we came back later, her son and his girlfriend would be there so we could talk with them,  The son is less active and the girlfriend is potentially interested, so we said we would be back after dinner.  

We had a great dinner with the Ruckers in which we laughed a lot and then had a great lesson on bearing testimony.  The Spirit was strong.  We then went back to the party and found that we had just missed them, but then Sister Castillo brought out all of her dresses that she had because Sister Liljenquist was looking at her wedding album and was admiring the Indian wedding she had had and all of her different dresses.  We were then convinced to try some on, it was fun.  Very heavy though.

Friday was zone meeting.  As is sometimes the case, I left there feeling like an awful missionary.  They always set goals for baptisms for the next month and dates we will set.  Most of the time, my investigators aren't progressing/we don't have any, so I end up feeling overwhelmed and like I can't do anything right.  It is very frustrating when you go out every day looking for people to share the best news ever with, and no one will listen, or commit, or progress.  Then you see everyone else in the zone with a baptism and you wonder what the heck you are doing wrong.  Sometimes it just all builds up and explodes out of my eyes.  So I had a little breakdown.  Sister Liljenquist did her best to help me see that I was being a good missionary and that it isn't all about numbers or baptisms.  

Then I had to shape up for lunch with a less active woman. She was super nice and fed us lots of delicious food.  Gluten unfortunately.  Sister Liljenquist graciously ate it though.  We then went out and tried to see others, but she wasn't feeling too well so we went home and called the Cypress Creek sisters to see if we could do another little exchange since we had a lot of appointments that night.  So Sister Davis came with me again.  She wouldn't let me leave the apartment though until she talked to me.  She saw me tearing up at zone meeting and knew something was wrong since crying is not my thing.  She said all these nice things and went through the successful missionary section of Preach My Gospel and told me I was great and stuff.  A few tissues later and we were out the door. 

Dinner at Panda Express
We were supposed to do family history with a recent convert and then she was running late, so we went to go see the girlfriend we were supposed to see the night before.  We talked with her for a bit and then I felt like I needed to give her a Book of Mormon.  She gratefully accepted it, saying that is what she had the most questions about.  We wrote down some of our favorite chapters and invited her to read them.  She lives in San Antonio, so we won't see her very often, but we have started something.  We then had to drive swiftly (but safely) in the rain to switch back.  As we were  leaving we realized that Sister Davis did have the phone.  We didn't have time to go back because we had a dinner to get to. We get there and the sisters had called their phone and asked them to tell us to call them.  We had a great dinner at Panda Express, they made promises to buy us some food (which was super nice) and then we drove through a now very heavily descending rain (like windshield wipers full speed rain) to get our phone back.  We decided that since it was 8:30 and scary rain, we would go home for the night.

Saturday was crazy.  We read scriptures with a less active who lives in our complex, had lunch, went to find people who no longer live where we thought they did, had appointments fall though, saw a new born baby, talked about family history, and had a delicious dinner.  So funny story.  The elders were having dinner at the same place we were and we were running late.  They called us as we were going over to ask if dinner was for sure at 5.  We said yes, and then they said they had knocked a couple of times and called and no one answered.  So we get there and Sister Liljenquist knocks on the door and they answer right away.  We just laughed and then the elders said that they never rang the doorbell either.  Moral of the story, ring the doorbell and knock loud.  We then did some finding and saw a less active lady.

Sunday was good.  We have moved to one o'clock church, but our meetings are still early.  So after correlation we met with he Primary President to talk about some families in the ward, went looking for someone who said we could come, and then went to church.  There was more people there than I have seen in a long time, and for the first time in forever (look at me making a Frozen reference, haven't even seen that movie) there were no grown men needed to pass the sacrament. I think it is because a new family moved into the ward and brought three young men with them.  Church was good, and then it was dinner.  We went to a home that always has good food and their daughters are hilarious.  One of them has bright red hair and reminds me of Heidi.  She is a little weirdo just like her :)  We then rushed to an appointment and she wasn't home.  We tried by potentials and then went home.  A member said they were going to bring us by food, so we waited for them...and waited..and waited...and then at 10:30 they came.  I can't complain though, because they brought us all sorts of goodies!!  All the things we need to make fried rice (which is a staple for this companionship) and a box of ice cream drumsticks.  They remind me of Granny :)  

So today is going to be fun.  A member is taking us to the Museum of Natural History and we are looking forward to it!!!

Have fun on the cruise without me.  Love y'all!


Sister Hudgens